Cydney Oakes
MA, LPC
LGBTQ+ affirming care, gender-affirming therapy, trauma, and anxiety.
Rockford & Lake in the Hills
Accepting New Clients
Therapy should be a place where you can talk openly about your life without having to defend or explain who you are. LGBTQ+ people seek therapy for many of the same reasons anyone else does - anxiety, depression, relationships, trauma, grief, family stress, work, self-esteem, or feeling overwhelmed. Other concerns may be more closely connected to sexual orientation, gender identity, family acceptance, discrimination, coming out, or figuring out what feels right for you.
At Transformations Counseling, affirming care means creating space to explore those experiences without treating identity as the problem that needs to be fixed.
Your identity is one part of your life, not a problem that needs to be fixed. Therapy can offer space to explore relationships, emotions, personal experiences, and questions about who you are at your own pace.
Whether you are exploring your identity, navigating family relationships, dealing with discrimination, or looking for support with anxiety, depression, or another concern, your experiences deserve to be understood in context.
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MA, LPC
LGBTQ+ affirming care, gender-affirming therapy, trauma, and anxiety.
Rockford & Lake in the Hills
Accepting New Clients
MSEd, NCC, LPC
LGBTQ+ concerns, transgender-affirming care, identity, trauma, and eating disorders.
Additional LGBTQ+ and gender studies qualifications.
Lake in the Hills
Accepting New Clients
MSEd, NCC, LPC
LGBTQ+ affirming care, neurodiversity-affirming therapy, teens, and adults.
Rockford
Accepting New Clients
This clinician also supports LGBTQ+ affirming care alongside other treatment areas. Contact intake to discuss fit and current scheduling options.
MA, CCMHC, LCPC
Focus: LGBTQ+ affirming care, trauma, and relationships.
Location: Rockford & Lake in the Hills
Waitlist
Affirming therapy does not mean assuming every problem is related to being LGBTQ+. It means a therapist understands that identity, relationships, family, culture, discrimination, safety, and belonging can affect mental health and deserve to be understood in context.
A client may spend a lot of time talking about identity - or almost none.
Your sessions can focus on what matters to you, whether that means exploring identity, navigating relationships, working through difficult experiences, or addressing concerns that have little to do with identity at all.
Talk With Our Intake TeamLearn more about affirming therapy, privacy, identity exploration, and finding a therapist who respects your experiences.
No. You do not need to have a label or know whether a particular label fits to talk about sexuality, gender, relationships, attraction, identity, or questions you are trying to understand.
They should not. Therapy is not supposed to be about a therapist assigning an identity. An affirming therapist can help you explore experiences while allowing you to determine what they mean to you.
No. You might be seeking help with anxiety, depression, trauma, work stress, grief, ADHD, relationships, or something unrelated to being LGBTQ+. Affirming care means you should not have to hide an important part of yourself.
You do not have to be out to everyone - or anyone - to seek therapy. Coming out is a personal decision, and family relationships, housing, finances, work, school, culture, religion, and safety can all affect that decision.
Therapy cannot control another person's response, but it can help you work through rejection, conflict, uncertainty, grief, anger, anxiety, boundaries, communication, self-esteem, support systems, and changing family relationships.
For minors, parents or guardians may have certain rights and responsibilities related to treatment, while young people also need an appropriate degree of privacy. Safety concerns and legally required circumstances can create limits to confidentiality. Your therapist can explain the applicable privacy rules before treatment begins.
Yes. Therapy can provide space to explore faith, identity, family, community expectations, or past religious experiences without assuming you must abandon either your identity or your beliefs.
Not necessarily. Parents, partners, spouses, and family members may also seek support with emotions, communication, relationships, understanding, and supporting someone they care about.
A negative experience with one therapist does not mean therapy cannot be helpful. It is reasonable to ask about experience with LGBTQ+ clients, the therapist's approach to affirming care, and how they handle topics that matter to you.
Yes. Clients can tell the intake team that they are specifically looking for an LGBTQ+ affirming clinician. Intake can combine that preference with age, treatment needs, insurance, location, and availability.
You deserve a space where you can talk openly, explore what matters to you, and receive support without having to defend who you are. Our intake team can help you find a clinician based on your preferences, needs, location, and current availability.
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